Twenty two years ago, I was married very young and was pretty naive about the world. I had my head in the clouds and did not think much about the fact that you may not be married to the same person for the rest of your life. I was a romantic, and I thought it was that way for everyone. But then I learned that my husband was cheating on me, and was soon alone and single. Now, that I am married again, I am far more savvy about things. To illustrate, I use snap spy app to keep tabs on my hubby with one of the programs he uses often.
I have no intention of making my husband uncomfortable. He has no idea that I use the program, and he really doesn’t need to. But I have children from my previous marriage, and I have a lot of assets of my own that I brought to this new relationship. It is important that I look out for my kids and my financial stability. If he is doing something that can affect our marriage, I need to know about it for protection.
The nice thing is that I ended up getting into this relationship not knowing what to expect, but I married someone who has shown me that he is very trustworthy. I am over the moon about that. And I would not have known that without using the little app that lets me know what he is up to. It feels wonderful knowing that I do not have to worry. It gives me a sense of peace. And it is fun to know that when he’s on his app chatting and talking with others that he is simply having fun with his friends who send him funny photos throughout the day.